How do you speak about others?
How do you treat them?
James 4:11 says, “Don’t speak evil against each other, dear brothers and sisters. If you criticize and judge each other, then you are criticizing and judging God’s law. But your job is to obey the law, not to judge whether it applies to you.”
At first I was confused by what this was saying when it said that we criticize and judge God’s law when we criticize and judge others. I gained a little more insight from the MSG version. “Don’t bad-mouth each other, friends. It’s God’s Word, his Message, his Royal Rule, that takes a beating in that kind of talk. You’re supposed to be honoring the Message, not writing graffiti all over it.”
I know it’s not the best way to study the Bible by only checking out another version, but this makes so much sense. We cause judgment from others to be cast upon God when we don’t get along as Christians and when we don’t live in a life giving manner. When all we do as Christians is judge those outside of the faith and even those who do believe, no one will ever want to be a part of what “Christ” is. We are called to make sure we are obeying God’s word ourselves and to be an example to others, not to be their judge.
The next verse says, “God alone, who gave the law, is the Judge. He alone has the power to save or to destroy. So what right do you have to judge your neighbor?”
God is the only one deciding people’s fate. Who do we think we are to speak judgment into other’s lives. Back to the MSG version it says this, “God is in charge of deciding human destiny. Who do you think you are to meddle in the destiny of others?”
Our words and actions are way more powerful than we think. Hurtful words have a huge effect on peoples lives. As we shared this last Tuesday night and had discussion, many expressed how they felt judged in certain areas and how that judgment affected their lifestyles.
Just think if we as believers in Christ only cast judgment we will never see anyone join in believing with us upon Christ. It was the kindness of Christ that led people into living a changed life, not a judgmental attitude.
None of this means that we don’t seek to help others lived repentant lives. What it means is a change in our hearts. Do we desire to tell others they need to change because it bothers us? Do we point out others sins because we want to feel better about ourselves?
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Do we seek to help others change because we know it is better for them to repent? Do we help others to see their sins (blind spots) so that they can live better lives in Christ?
Consider this week how you can LOVE someone by leading them gently and kindly in the truths of Christ!



